Interesting. I`m in a similar scenario, but with no spiritual overtones whatsoever. It is really not any hypothetical infant i will be scared of -- indeed, I usually joke that goodness may go best ahead by leaving one over at my front door in a bushel basket, i would fondly elevate it. It`s the pregnancy, c-section and post-partum seasons I can't stand.
After 3 c-sections (and 3 bouts of PPD of varying grade), i will be currently inside my 40`s and have proclaimed our uterus superannuated. I am just Catholic although devout, and also have extended dissented in the point of birth control. I know think birth control is like sexual intercourse it self, in this particular it can be used completely or wicked, according to the purposes belonging to the members and what's inside their minds.
My husband is not at all a Christian whatsoever, likes offspring, and imeetzu can go on having them advertising infinitum. He doesn`t want a vasectomy because he willn`t simillar to the understanding of finalizing on his own down for a long time through the risk of family, and desires you to keep using birth control instead. Most of us need a number of boundary options (condom and diaphragm), which if employed properly and jointly should getting impressive; plus, I`ve examined NFP to comprehend my favorite fertility greater -- but actually that tiny probability of creation haunts me personally. Simple pregnancy fears will be more injuring our sex-life, and tend to be definitely not best for our very own relationships.