Hello Doc you might well claim that we (21m straight) was in some a relationship issue type scenario. I have found me are very actually ( not romantically) interested in my closest friend of 14 many years (21f directly) and it is creating me personally very uncomfortable. She and I also became close friends in year 2 after seated near to both and stabbing both with pencils (do not query me the reason we became family next minute because I am not sure). We were both bullied in main college to be weird and various therefore both stood up to both once we were being bullied. To this day though we have now visited various institutes we nonetheless stays devoted close friends, and the woman is the actual only real buddy i have held since youth.
Lately but I begun to be very physically attracted to the woman and I also do not know how to approach this without damaging a relationship. I am not romantically drawn to this lady, our very own characters is much too different for people currently and I also you shouldn't read this lady in an intimate feeling. The woman identity is that of an overly passionate fantastic retriever dog without any borders whereas Im extremely peaceful and introverted like a cat (You will find Aspergers, she doesn't). I am not worried about are aˆ?friendzonedaˆ? but I've been creating plenty of vibrant dreams about me personally along with her aˆ?getting it onaˆ? and I also'm uncertain dealing with these emotions without possibly damaging a friendship.